Sometimes in my classroom, it gets a little crazy! No matter how well I try to plan out toy selection, room arrangement and awesomely fun activities, my toddlers occasionally (ok, probably more like daily...) lose control. Screaming for fun, running around the room until a teacher redirects them, taking someone else's toy just to get a reaction....you get the idea!
My guess is if you work with kids or have some little munchkins of your own at home, you experience some of these same delightful moments too!
In order to maintain order in a room full of 14 two year olds, my lovely co-teacher and I had to send in for some reinforcements! Toddlers love to be silly and a little crazy, but they also love to feel like they have power and control!
Being the smart little cookies that we are, we thought it would be helpful for our kiddos to have some tools for remembering the rules....SIGNS!
Here's the idea, a toddler gets really excited about something and giddy screaming ensues....screaming is too loud and is for outside (that is one of our rules). So instead of reprimanding the tot with a stern and un-fun message, I calmly walk over to my little friend and remind them of the rule: "Hey little friend, screaming inside is too loud. Would you like to carry the sign around to remind everyone that we need to use a calm voice?"
Oh no, what now??? My little toddler friend has lost the ability to slow down and is on the run around shelves, tables, other Tods....yikes!
"Hey little friend, we walk our feet in the classroom. Would you like to carry the walking sign to remind everyone that we walk our feet to be safe??"
This idea can be tweaked for a multitude of situations based on the challenges that you are facing with following the rules. Just think of the behavior that you desire to change and make a sign that your kiddo can carry around and 'remind' others nearby of the rules! They feel so proud and empowered to be chosen for such an important job as SIGN CARRIER!
Another type of sign that is an effective tool is the schedule sign. We have this one (above) posted by our tables for mealtimes to help the kids remember the process for the end of mealtimes. They learn to know what's next from the pictures and from the teachers repeating the process. This is a great tool for bedtime routines or other challenging transition times!
The final type of sign is hands down my very favorite....and hilarious! We call this one the "BM" sign. We use it as a teaching tool for our friends who are at the beginning stages of toilet training or are having some challenges with the toilet learning process! Some people use stickers, a jar of M&M's, prizes....none of these are bad choices for motivating toilet success. We have just found that the kids want to show people what they did, not for someone or something, but for them....they are so proud!
We show the sign while our friends are sitting on the potty, "See, BM's go in the toilet. When your BM goes in the toilet, you can go show your friends what you did with this sign!!"
Again, this type of motivational tool could be used for many other things...cleaning up toys, getting dressed, trying some vegetables...they key is to only let them carry it around when they have done what the sign says. No points for trying without results! Its very effective!
Toddlers love to learn new skills and are so happy to share their accomplishments with anyone who will listen, so let's give them some tools to make them feel like they are in charge and SO BIG! Empowerment is powerful!